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MadsenOMC
08-21-2006, 07:57 PM
SPOILERS!



I am a huge fan of The Myth of Fingerprints, and though World Traveler was disappointing, because of the cast and Sundance buzz, I had high hopes for Bart Freundlich's Trust the Man.

I am sad to say that it is pretty awful. A bland mainstream romantic comedy masquerading as an insightful indie flick, it would be intolerable without its talented cast.

The story follows two couples, one married and one not. Tom (David Duchovny) has recently quit a lucrative advertising job to become a full-time house husband. His wife Rebecca (Julianne Moore) is a successful actress.

Rebecca's brother and Tom's best friend Tobey (Billy Crudup), a writer, has been with Elaine (Maggie Gyllenhaal) for seven years.

Both couples have serious problems. Tom desires sex at least twice a day while Rebecca has a general disinterest in it. She believes her husband is too interested in sex, while he doesn't feel the need to apologize for being attracted to his wife.

Tobey is a selfish and inconsiderate jerk. He won't drive Elaine to work because he wants to watch Sportscenter and doesn't want to lose a good parking spot in front of their building. Plus, while she is ready for marriage and kids, he has no interest in either.

Both men are considering straying, Tom with a single mom he meets at his son's school and Tobey with an old college friend who is now married.

The main problem with Trust the Man is that is has nothing new or remotely interesting to say about modern relationships. They are difficult and complicated and full of compromise and sacrifice. Well no fucking shit.

It's also full of tired gender stereotypes. All men love porn and sports while contemplating or having affairs. All women are consumed by either thinking about their family or planning one.

It's also strange that for someone who clearly relishes mocking pretension, a word that gets mentioned repeatedly, Freundlich spends a lot of time wallowing in it. The characters talk and talk and talk but never really say anything. They are also incredibly dull.

For some reason there is an abundance of slapstick and bodily function humor. Both are unwelcome and out of place. Any movie that opens with a man and his son discussing poop is setting itself up for failure.

Though the acting is good across the board, the cast can't save the weak material they were given and you have to wonder what they could have possibly seen in this screenplay. Trust the Man is a bad movie.

4/10

ilovemovies
08-22-2006, 12:01 AM
Well, I'm glad David Duchovney is getting work. He's one of my favorites and is very underrated.

Maybe what he should do though is go to Chris Carter's house and kick his ass to get moving on The X-Files 2 already!

RickySIade
08-22-2006, 10:59 AM
Judging from the trailers the film looks extremley pretentious. People have been comparing it to Woody Allen films. It seems like it's supposed to be hip and cool nowadays for 30 somethings to cheat on their spouses and ask why they aren't more excited with their life. This could have been a good movie ten years ago, or on Lifetime.

optimus1
08-24-2006, 05:19 AM
DD needs to get on some tv series , he hasn't fared all that well on the big screen with the exception of the X-Files movie. I know he also does other stuff like direct so maybe he is enjoying that and doesnt care much about acting anymore..

Tweek
08-24-2006, 09:25 PM
All I can say is Maggie G. is with Peter Saarsgaard so I hate her.
I HATE... HER

austingirl
08-28-2006, 03:12 PM
Somewhat off topic, but since DD is in this movie...is it true there is an Files 2 movie in the works? I saw DD promoting this film on the Tonight Show & he mentioned it as if it was going to happen, but wasn't too sure if that was just wishful thinking on his part?

ilovemovies
08-28-2006, 07:05 PM
Originally posted by austingirl
Somewhat off topic, but since DD is in this movie...is it true there is an Files 2 movie in the works? I saw DD promoting this film on the Tonight Show & he mentioned it as if it was going to happen, but wasn't too sure if that was just wishful thinking on his part?

I hope so but David Duchovney has saying stuff for years and nothing has really happened yet. I doubt this is any different.

biglaughs
08-28-2006, 08:54 PM
X-Files 2 - hehehe, silly

austingirl
08-29-2006, 01:27 PM
Originally posted by ilovemovies
I hope so but David Duchovney has saying stuff for years and nothing has really happened yet. I doubt this is any different.

Sad to hear...oh well...will have to live vicariously through the reruns!

Moviefan02000
08-29-2006, 05:40 PM
This opens at my theater this weekend, I'll definitely check it out.

austingirl
08-30-2006, 05:11 PM
i'm going to check if it opens near here...may be a good movie to watch this weekend!

MadsenOMC
08-31-2006, 01:06 PM
Originally posted by austingirl
may be a good movie to watch this weekend!

It isn't.

chinton
08-31-2006, 01:30 PM
No interest here. Looks like a wanna be Woody Allen on one of his bad days.

MadsenOMC
08-31-2006, 01:31 PM
Originally posted by chinton
Looks like a wanna be Woody Allen on one of his bad days.

An accurate description.

austingirl
09-05-2006, 01:15 PM
Wow. I am glad I didn't go watch it...some family was in town, so it was hard to get a chance to slip away. But with these reviews, it looks like I didn't miss much!

Moviefan02000
09-08-2006, 07:11 PM
What a disappointment! I was hoping for a really great movie, and I left the theater really angry with myself that I saw this instead of LITTLE MISS SUNSHINE. The first fourty minutes is good, despite some really lame humor ("dad, I need to poop!") it was really good. Then the male characters got annoying, and I hated both of them. Julianne Moore and Maggie Gyllenhaal are really good in their performances though. Also, I hated the whole speech about being wrapped up in ham and everything, obviously it wasn't the truth but it was so out of place and annoying. It did have some funny moments though (the masterbation scene, the scene where Julianne Moore chokes on cake) but it really isn't a great movie. I really wish I was able to see THE QUIET.

6/10 (C+)

SpikeDurden
09-22-2006, 01:42 AM
Trust the Man is a complete and utter mess. The first 90 minutes is a smattering of scenes that don't tell a story or make much sense, with a few minorly funny sequences, characters that come out of nowhere and don't belong in the movie (the therapist, the french guy), and "witty" dialouge that could've been written by a child. The last 15 minutes, then, plays like your average, poorly done, modern romantic comedy in which the two male leads have to make grand gestures to get back their women, followed by an epilouge showing how wonderful their life is now, being careful to throw in a joke or two previously portrayed in the film. It's a shame, really, because a cast this inspired (Duchovny, Crudup, Moore, and Gyllenhaal is a dream cast, and they really do their best in the roles), could've made for a charming romantic comedy. Unfortunately, we're left with a film that wants to be too many things at the same time, and a writer/director who doesn't have a firm handle on anything. Why do screenplays like this get made when I'm sure thousand of brilliant ones are passed on every year? A mystery, to be sure. I just hope Duchovny can continue getting work, because really, he's the man.

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