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Brendan M.
02-08-2008, 09:34 AM
This is my first rant on this board (yay for me!). I'm usually an easy going guy and don't need to vent about things, but I've finally found something that really bothers me.

People who need the whole movie explained to them straight forward instead of having to pay attention to it themselves. Have you ever sat down and watched a movie with someone who constantly interrupts your viewing experience to ask stupid questions about what's going on in the movie? Questions that are so obvious that they themselves know the answers to them but they need to ask them out loud anyway just to be reassured? I think there is a widespread epidemic of ADD going around lately.

I'm a fan of Park Chan-Wook (you can tell from my avatar) and I really like in a lot of his movies, he knows how to tell a story visually. I like how a photo album and a pair of angel wings that were seen earlier in the film were used to reveal the big plot twist at the end of Oldboy. I like how the key chain on the antagonist's cell phone in Lady Vengeance revealed something deep and disturbing about the character. Now a days we have a lot of Keven Smith and Tarantino wannabes who rely too much on dialogue to have to explain everything that's going on
in the movie. People forget that one rule that they were all taught in film school. "Show, don't tell." Or maybe they changed that now once everyone got stupid.

Anyways, I made a short film recently myself with little to no dialogue and the story was mostly told visually in the style of Park Chan-Wook who I admire. To most people it was obvious what was going on in the story, but there was one person who I sat down and watched it with and she couldn't have been more annoying during it.

Her: "Why did he put his wedding ring on? Does that mean he was cheating on his wife?"

Me: "Yes"

Her: "Who's calling him on the phone? Is that the girl with the cell phone?"

Me: "yes"

Her: Is she holding a bottle of perscription pills while she's sleeping because she killed herself?"

Me: "Yes, yes, yes! Every question you've asked me so far I've said yes to so please just assume that the next question you have, the answer will be yes and you will have figured out the movie yourself and feel like an intelligent person like the rest of us."

And I've dealt with people like this during movies with the simplest of plots like Evil Dead, Batman Begins, Fight Club, even Die Hard. Hell, even my own dad asks some pretty stupid questions during movies.

But you know what the worst thing is? I went to Sundance film festival a couple weeks ago and there were people there who asked these kinds of questions to the filmmakers at their Q&A!

In Hell Ride, the character played by Eric Balfour knows little about his mother and nothing about his father. Larry Bishop's character talks about how he was involved with her at one point and then at the end.. (I'm hoping that I'm not spoiling it for anyone but its not really that big of a revelation once you see the film) Bishop starts refering to Balfour as "son". Then there was that one guy in the audience at the Q&A who just had to ask:

"So were you two like father and son at the end?"

Bishop and Balfour: "Yes."

They answered him before he could even finish his sentence. Then my sister sitting next to me quietly says outloud to herself "No shit Sherlock!"

We have a generation of kids right now who think the Godfather is boring and then they go to theaters to see movies like Meet the Spartans and Step Up 2 (Is it just me or was there ever even a Step Up 1?).

Maybe some places should start handing out ritalin to people before the movie begins.

RustyRazor
02-08-2008, 10:07 AM
Sadly, this happens a lot and can ruin your movie experience.
I used to have a friend back in high school that did this when we went to the movies together with our other friends. Then I printed a card that said:


THANK YOU FOR INQUIRING ABOUT THIS MOVIE. PLEASE HOLD ALL QUESTIONS ABOUT THE MOVIE, IT'S PLOTLINES, PLOT TWISTS, AND CONCLUSION OF THE MOVIE UNTIL THE END. AND THANK YOU ONCE AGAIN.

Every time he started to ask a question, I showed him the card.
He stopped coming to the movies cause he probably felt insulted, but we respected other people in the theater having a good time and not having someone talking through the friggin' film.

adamjohnson
02-08-2008, 10:48 AM
Sadly, this happens a lot and can ruin your movie experience.
I used to have a friend back in high school that did this when we went to the movies together with our other friends. Then I printed a card that said:


THANK YOU FOR INQUIRING ABOUT THIS MOVIE. PLEASE HOLD ALL QUESTIONS ABOUT THE MOVIE, IT'S PLOTLINES, PLOT TWISTS, AND CONCLUSION OF THE MOVIE UNTIL THE END. AND THANK YOU ONCE AGAIN.

Every time he started to ask a question, I showed him the card.
He stopped coming to the movies cause he probably felt insulted, but we respected other people in the theater having a good time and not having someone talking through the friggin' film.

BRAINWAVE

There should be a hotline, or at least a YouTube series explaining complex movies for stupid people.

We could make MILLIONS, Rusty.

Scarfather
02-08-2008, 11:31 AM
BRAINWAVE

There should be a hotline, or at least a YouTube series explaining complex movies for stupid people.

We could make MILLIONS, Rusty.

But that's just it, stupid people are stupid.

"You see, Kevin Spacey was Soze the whole time."
"I don't get it."
"His character was lying the whole time, he's actually Soze."
"I don't get it."
"What don't you get about it exactly?"
"I don't get it."

EvilHenchman
02-08-2008, 11:32 AM
I agree: "Everyone got stupid." No one here, of course.

I'm talking about "out there."

Cop No. 633
02-08-2008, 12:21 PM
My sister always asks me important plot points about a film if I have seen it before her. Nothing annoys me more than this. I explained to her that I don't like doing that because it spoils the entire reason for seeing a film. She went on to say, "It doesn't for me." She doesn't understand that expecting a "twist" or some spoiler will ruin the experience because if you don't know anything, you can actually get surprised. It's insane who she doesn't get that.

Now I just lie to her about any film she asks me about. I'll make up something that doesn't happen in the film just so I could satisfy her need to know and my need to not reveal anything. It's funny. She asked me about No Country for Old because of the "strange ending" and I told her Brolin lives but Tommy Lee Jones dies because of him. hahaha

vesaker
02-08-2008, 12:21 PM
i blame things like lead paint personally. Our generation is going to be an interesting one for hte history books as we are the hearalds for the technological age but still are not past the iodoit mistakes of the past like Esbestose and lead in stuff that there really are stupid ppl put there that instead of finding out on thier own would rather have things mapped out for them.

Its like "who's that guy" and i say "wait til lthe end of the movie as it might be explained during the duration" :rolleyes:

a7xfan
02-08-2008, 01:33 PM
my mum does this all the time, and its very annoying

Servo
02-08-2008, 02:00 PM
Yeah my Mom does this a lot too but I've grown used to it and usually just ignore her and pretend I'm asleep or something.

However when we watched Lady in the Water the other day she didn't ask a single question.

Thanks M. Night for having every single character explain every fucking thing that was going on in your story.

DarthWade
02-08-2008, 02:42 PM
I totally agree with your rant because it has happened to me many many times and I can't get over how fucking idiotic people can be.

One particular thing I hate, and I know I'm not the only one here that has happened to, is being asked questions before the opening credits have barely finished. You're watching a mystery, and in the beginning some guy gets killed, and before he hits the ground they are asking questions. Who was he? Why did he get killed? Why is he there?

Hello fuckface, I don't know! The movie just started!!!

You know, there are animals who have better attention spans that a lot of people.

LordSimen
02-08-2008, 03:50 PM
Oh god. That question situation I know all too well, my brother use to do that every time I saw a movie with him. "Why is he going to the bathroom, does he have to take a shit!?" It would always be the stupidest, most obvious questions that would be answered if he just PAID ATTENTION and stopped ASKING QUESTIONS. I hate people who ask instead of watch so much.

Le_Big_Mac
02-08-2008, 04:21 PM
Another reason why people are assholes.

God of War
02-08-2008, 04:36 PM
Ya know guys, I sometimes fall into this category of not fully understanding a movie at the time. But I remain silent until I get home and then I ask the Schmoes at Joblo's to help me. Then again, I always got to the movies on my own. So I have noone to ask of.

Here's something that will make you either laugh or be angry, oir cry. When I went to see braveheart, these two women who were foreigners. One spoke english obviously and could understand it as well. Her friend could not. So the first woman translated to whole of Braveheart for her. Imagine that? Almost 3 hours of jibbering. It did however not bother me. Amazing!

I've seen just just about all of this kinda stuff at the movies. lol

echo_bravo
02-08-2008, 04:49 PM
Brendan totally agree with your rant.

What really grinds my gears is when my really really smart friends need shit explained to them in full.

A couple of my buddies scored over 1400 on their SATs and have really high paying jobs. I totally assumed that they were smart when it comes to figuring things out..well, apparently not films.

I had to explain Memento, Mullound Drive, The Prestige and The Usual Suspects to them for them to fully understand it. Fucking dumbasses are brillant at engineering yet they cant put together a film's plot at all. Idiots!!!!:mad:

X-Nightcrawler
02-08-2008, 06:15 PM
I had to explain Mullound DriveHeh.

Tweek
02-08-2008, 07:43 PM
THANK YOU FOR INQUIRING ABOUT THIS MOVIE. PLEASE HOLD ALL QUESTIONS ABOUT THE MOVIE, IT'S PLOTLINES, PLOT TWISTS, AND CONCLUSION OF THE MOVIE UNTIL THE END. AND THANK YOU ONCE AGAIN.

I am so gonna steal this from you. :D


Ya know guys, I sometimes fall into this category of not fully understanding a movie at the time. But I remain silent until I get home and then I ask the Schmoes at Joblo's to help me. Then again, I always got to the movies on my own. So I have noone to ask of.

See, I only get annoyed with it when it's during the entire movie.


Heh.

I saw it too.:)

The Postmaster General
02-09-2008, 01:32 AM
We had taken LSD and went to see Pulp Fiction. After the movie we all go back to my apartment complex and are playing and being goofy. Probably a good 4 hours after the movie at this point, we are all sitting by the pool. This chick looks over at me and out of the blue asks, "So what I don't get - how did John Travolta come back to life?"

Brendan M.
02-09-2008, 09:57 AM
We had taken LSD and went to see Pulp Fiction. After the movie we all go back to my apartment complex and are playing and being goofy. Probably a good 4 hours after the movie at this point, we are all sitting by the pool. This chick looks over at me and out of the blue asks, "So what I don't get - how did John Travolta come back to life?"

lol. That gave me a real good laugh.


I have a feeling that if I copied RustyRazor's sign idea, the idiots I watch the movie with will just start asking me endless questions about why I have a sign.

"Hey what's that? What's it say? What's that mean dude? Why'd you bring it?"