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thedudeman69
08-10-2005, 01:11 PM
WHITE PLAINS, N.Y. - After helping her famous husband turn his paralysis into a gracefully productive last nine years,
Dana Reeve is fighting for her own life with the resolve and optimism that have already attracted worldwide admiration.

Christopher Reeve's widow announced Tuesday that she has lung cancer, then quickly added: "I hope before too long to be sharing news of my good health and recovery."

"Now, more than ever, I feel Chris with me as I face this challenge," said the 44-year-old actress. "As always, I look to him as the ultimate example of defying the odds with strength, courage, and hope."

Christopher Reeve, the star of the "Superman" movies who was paralyzed in a horse-riding accident in 1995, died last year. The Reeves have a 13-year-old son, Will.

Dana Reeve, chairwoman of the Christopher Reeve Paralysis Foundation, said Tuesday that her lung cancer was recently diagnosed and is being treated, but she did not reveal the extent of the cancer or her prognosis, except to say that she and her doctors were optimistic. She did not say where she is being treated.

Dr. Scott Swanson, chief of thoracic surgery at Mount Sinai Medical Center in Manhattan, said that depending on the extent of the cancer, Reeve would be treated with surgery, chemotherapy, radiation or a combination.

When cancer is confined to the lung, the survival rate after five years is 49 percent; but only 2 percent live five years if it has spread to other organs.

Though most victims of lung cancer are smokers, Reeve is not, said foundation spokeswoman Maggie Goldberg.

Reeve's announcement came two days after the lung cancer death of ABC News anchorman Peter Jennings, a smoker, at age 67.

The foundation would not comment on whether Reeve's cancer is restricting her activities.

"Dana will tackle this challenge with the grace, courage, and determination that have become her hallmark," said Kathy Lewis, the foundation's president and chief executive officer.

A month ago, Reeve cited "family reasons" when she canceled an appearance in Washington with actor
Michael J. Fox in support of embryonic stem cell research, which advocates say might someday cure spinal cord injuries like Christopher Reeve's.

Comedian
Robin Williams, a close friend of the Reeves, issued a statement with his wife, Marsha, sending "all of our love and support to Dana and her family during this challenging time."

Reeve, who lives in Westchester County, near New York City, with her son, has appeared on Broadway, off-Broadway and regional stages and on the TV shows "Law & Order," "Oz," and "All My Children."

In February, she won a Mother of the Year award from the
American Cancer Society.

A society vice president, Dr. Michael Thun, said Tuesday that Reeve "has shown strength and courage in the face of tremendous adversity in the past, and that strength will serve her well during this time."

jeo4
08-10-2005, 01:38 PM
Very sad news. I hope she gets better. This family would probably appreciate a break.

Shockwave
08-10-2005, 06:39 PM
..well...shit...

James Logan
08-11-2005, 12:50 PM
Good Lord.

I hope things'll get better for the Reeves. As Jeo said, they could really use (and with all the fighting, would definitely deserve) a break sometime.

RavenBlade
08-11-2005, 03:34 PM
trully sad. But I believe in her strength, she seems like a fighter,
and good for her, if it was me, sheesh, I think I would be
banging on the suicide ladder, I'm courageous and stuff,
but not that strong. I myself am a smoker, and this concerns
me, I'm not ready for death, so tomorrow is my quit date,
hopefully. It's such a pain in the neck to quit though.
But whatever. Quitting I shall do.


Raven

SweetEnLow
08-11-2005, 05:06 PM
Sad news. I think she's been through enough. :(

Good luck to you RavenBlade.

Shockwave
08-11-2005, 08:16 PM
Cold Turkey Raven. Cold Turkey.

...and surround yourself with activity and friends. Now work either. Take a vacation but stay active as hell.

..and good luck. It got the better of my grandfathers, and its going to get some of my buds as well i fear.

KillerKlown
08-18-2005, 07:50 PM
Just take it one day at a time, RavenBlade and don't believe any of the bullshit smokers say about "You'll miss it most after you have a meal - You'll never forget how good it tastes" - You do.

Shockwave
08-18-2005, 08:16 PM
Originally posted by KillerKlown
Just take it one day at a time, RavenBlade and don't believe any of the bullshit smokers say about "You'll miss it most after you have a meal - You'll never forget how good it tastes" - You do.

Those are the sounds of people who havent really quit.

KillerKlown
08-19-2005, 08:28 AM
Pretty much. I quit back in '94 after being hospitalised for two weeks and that's all the crap I got from the people I knew who smoked. It was really tough (especially when I was out drinking). But once you get past the first few weeks, you've got it made.

BadCoverVersion
08-19-2005, 01:01 PM
Originally posted by RavenBlade
trully sad. But I believe in her strength, she seems like a fighter,
and good for her, if it was me, sheesh, I think I would be
banging on the suicide ladder, I'm courageous and stuff,
but not that strong. I myself am a smoker, and this concerns
me, I'm not ready for death, so tomorrow is my quit date,
hopefully. It's such a pain in the neck to quit though.
But whatever. Quitting I shall do.


Raven.

I'll be an ex-smoker of TWO WHOLE WEEKS as of tomorrow evening.

I've had just one lapse over the course of this fortnight, I smoked at a gig last Thursday and I felt truly wretched the morning after.

Keep the faith man. I've been a relatively heavy smoker for around 12 years now. So if I can kick the habit I'm sure anybody can. I won't lie mind...I've been throwing up almost daily since being without the wicked weed, and I feel completely knackered and tetchy 24/7. But it's a small price to pay in the long run.

The Postmaster General
08-19-2005, 02:07 PM
Can I say I think it's cool we're using this thread as a forum for talking about quitting smoking.

I was a 2 pack a day smoker years ago. Then something strange happened. I ended up being in charge of creating, and presenting a weekly class at the community center on the dangers of smoking and how to quit. While making the class I actually smoked more - go figure.

Now, I'm pretty much smoke free, and will only smoke when others are around -- I "bum smokes". It's great. I have maybe one cigarette a month, average - if that.

There's lots of keys I've found, many of which are related to what they call "state dependent learning" -- which is why people want to smoke more drunk, after meals ---- A big thing for me, as I didn't go cold turkey, was slowly eliminating places I would smoke. One by one. I used to go out on the porch to smoke, so for many months I just avoided or limited my time on the porch. This technique is harder for people who smoke indoors, especially on the couch or in bed -- but it is possible,/

But the one sure fire way I've always stood by to stop smoking --- Don't buy cigarettes.

I've found that I'd rather take shit from my friends for bumming theirs than having a pack always handy and being able to smoke whenever I want.

Trust me - it's a great discouragement for your friends too. i've watched friends sit though whole videos not smoking because they only had two cigarettes and they knew I'd ask them for one if they went to smoke.

Does that make me an asshole -- When my friends don't want to give me smokes, they sometimes try and make it seem like that. But whatever, man --- You won't lose friends because of this. My friends, even complaining as they do, still take it with good humor, and I always get the "I wish i could do it like you" comment --- To which I always reply, 'Well then don't buy cigareetes."

Then they say, "Well then I won't have any to smoke."

To which my smart ass replies, 'yeah, isn't that the point."

So - hope you try that technique. It is really the most sure fire way. I stay by it because most people feel obligated to have their own smokes when others are smoking -- so they buy a pack --- now they feel obligated to finish the pack. I say, take out the most obvious element and take it from there. Smoking is meant to be more of a luxury than people treat it. If you can't share a smoke with someone, you shouldn't be smoking in the first place, IMO.

And it always takes me to my favorite response when someone asks if I smoke: "No..... Why you have some?"


If only I knew more professionals that smoked crack, i'd be all set.

The Heart Collector
08-19-2005, 03:23 PM
Life sure sucks.