Well, Asia isn't the only place they go... But that wasn't my point. Really it's an individual thing. No right or wrong as long as both people in the relationship are okay with it. If not then it would be a problem. I would not want my husband getting lap dances and such, but him being there I didn't have a problem with that at all it wasn't a regular thing amd I'm not a girl who gets easily threatened by other women when I'm in a committed relationship.
But anyway I will back out of the thread as I'm sure I was not the intended audience.