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Old 12-11-2012, 07:27 PM
Body Image

Okay l wanted to write about how we judge each other and dont look at the face of a person sometimes

I am across a freind who started a relationship with a man he liked her on face value but as always judged her down below meeaning not shaving her vagina hair

Why is it that we dont look at the person anymore this bloke wanted her to wax all her pubic hair off because he said it was way to bushy she decided to trim the area and thought that would do the job but he looked down below and said that the pubic hair was still there and he wanted her to go the whole hog meaning the brizan meaning waxing off all the area

Well she was concerned about the pain through waxing and opted out

But this bloke decided to tell her freinds who are girls and they said they didnt and said to her she should too to plaese her bloke

What alot of bullshit this type of thing should be between the two in the relationship nit a whole crowd

That is what l am saying why are we so judgement of what a person looks llike

Would you as blokes put wax on your balls to get rid of the hair

Okay also l see in this generation is weight loss and girls and even boys are in a growing trend that if they are not skinny they are judged if you do not drink you are made to look like a fool

There are also other areas in bodie image but l might wait for a few commnets to see waht you think of body image and its damaging ways

I also want to say if a girl didnt shave down below would you drop her for someone who does

I feel that l have to say this as if you really liked other things about a person why would you get rid of her or him

I know there is alot of issues regarding men to and that is a shame we are even talking about this

How things have changed when l was growing up and the things women or men are having to cope with is terrible

In Australia they are going to have a seminar on this very subject because it is reeally effecting people growing up in this world

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Old 12-11-2012, 07:47 PM
"There really is nothing like a shorn scrotum, it's breathtaking, I suggest you try it"
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Old 12-11-2012, 07:53 PM
What l dont have a pair of balls grins

I would hate to have male bodie parts look at how you guys have to try and fit everything in her jocks

I like being a female and not having to worry about that
have you ever caught you penis in the zip of you trousers l have seen it happen geez you guys go through alot

I would have to say l would prefer a good trim to this area but taking all the pubic hair would be a painful experiece

Also l was watching a series called can of worms and they had men talking about women shaving below one said it was like looking at a five year old girl instead of a woman l have to agree with this statement



Also having your down below waxed would be painful

Just thinking of it makes me want to scream in pain as the wax strip takes the hair off grins
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Old 12-11-2012, 08:33 PM
Personally, I've never gotten it caught in my zipper...I'm simply not that careless with it.

I would think that being a female is more difficult, having your looks be that much more paramount than a guy. Plus there's the whole world of having to deal with gossip and what other girls say about you. I would have thought that high school would be the end of that, but some people don't grow out of it...

About what guys think of girls having hair down there, it varies from guy to guy. Some guys prefer no hair on a comfort level, some prefer it to reduce getting STDs, some have really sensitive skin and hate any hair, and some just find it sexier...the list can go on forever. Now, that last one's not to say that they *ALL* prefer a little girl (some seriously don't), it's just a preference...

As far as waxing, if you wanna do it, grab a stress ball and something to bite down on...it'll be worth the pain
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Old 12-11-2012, 08:43 PM
I really liked how you explained your post you seem to understand that it is harder for women than guys in this world

it is true girls can be very bitchy with each other and if you dont look a certain way or have your hair styled to be like the girls you are not in the top group

Well it is interesting to that you say that guys have diffrent tastes l would like to say why is it such a huge thing with guys these days a couple of years ago it was on something else but now it is whether you shave or not

I only knew this year that men shaved there balls and other pubic hair off so l think l seem to be way behind l learnt this on this forum and now l am getting freinds coming to me saying that men want this men want that
I have never had any trouble with blokes and they seem to like me for who l am l just think l wouldnt want to have a wax job to suit a man l would want to do it for me not him

But l konw ot is nice to trim and keep this area looking nice but looking like a five year old just makes me think waht are men reading or looking at on the interent

I asm not having a go at blokes but l just can not understand why you are judging us like this and this is not all men

If l had a nice man l would prefer the man to look manly not have his ball and other areas shaven

You grow up to be men and that is waht l want is a man not a man that resorts to this

I like your last reply a stree ball would not be enough
I think they would have to put me under general annersedic meaning put me asleep to pull all of it out grins
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Old 12-11-2012, 09:45 PM
You're right, I do have some understanding, but it's not even close. I've been unfortunate enough to hear about how difficult it can be to qualify as what a guy considers "hot" ...so many decisions and so much work put into dressing up, and the payoff is the approval and desire from someone who couldn't be less appreciative of it, lol.

I'm the same way about grooming: I do it more for me than for anyone else. I'm proud of my manly hair. I'm man-some
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Old 12-11-2012, 09:56 PM
Hey that makes me smile that you think your manly hair looks good it should be grins

Yes being manly down there does look good even though the mans parts are not that goodlooking to look at but a woman should be looking at other features of a man
it is terrible for me to say that but l would prefer to look a man in the face than say l am only interested if you shave or not l want to know the person
Thst is why l dont y=understand why men find women who shave it all off as someting really inviting when l think of it l think of a child even in a man l would think of the same thing

But do men talk about women on waht they want down there in a group
it seems to be the in thing in Australia dont you think that person details like this should be private

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Old 12-12-2012, 08:19 AM
Well when you talk about stds l have heard that women,need hair down there to combat this l think if you grow up to have pubic haute as a adult you would think you would have it there,for some reason,it would be the same for men
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Old 12-12-2012, 09:00 PM
First of all, why the hell aren't other guys commenting on here? Not complaining, I'm sure the conversation would devolve quickly.

Kind of off topic, but kind of related.: you commented on the look of a gentleman's area, about how it's not much to look at, and I kind of agree. The hairier a guy is, the more hideous his body can look...and you better believe that requires a better personality! lol Depending on the woman, there is a level where looks don't matter as much to a female. I was told by a girl I was dating once: "during sex, guys think more about what you look like, and women think more about who you are." That changed my whole perspective on the mating game...

As far as shaving, I see it as more of a personal preference among individuals than a group mentality. It may be more common now than it has been before, that's for sure, but I see it as coming down to what an individual wants...
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Old 12-12-2012, 09:16 PM
yes l have to agree l dont understand why other male members are not posting in here
maybe they are shy about how they feel about this or have not noticed this thread the title is body image so maybe if l changed the title to female shaving down below every male would swoop in here and post

Look at Anne Hathaway in the celeb thread it is all about her getting out of a car and showing her you know down below the male members have posted in there for one day and a half

Maybe we need a banner lol but l do understand what you mean l would like others in here too

So you say that if a guy is quite hairy down under it looks ugly well when a female looks at her vagina you think why do men find this area attractive
I think it goes both ways Exophrine

Well l have to agree with your exgirlfreind that waht she said is sort of right

You see l like to know someone and l dont look down or get on my knees and say you are not for me

I look at the man for who he is and how he comes across and how he treats me as a person

Also men do think about waht you look like and dont look further sometimes

I feel that this is a shame and l have to point out this is not looking at all men it is some
Well that is why l asked the group qestion if you are talking about shaving as a couple it should stay there and not be talked about to others outside

Sometimes things like this can be embarrassing for a woman

That is why l say that some men think of waht they want a woman to do for them but dont think about how a woman feels about certain things

Maybe it is that some couples dont talk enough about personal things
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Old 12-12-2012, 10:47 PM
Well, to comment on the boys commenting on that thread, guys will pretty much always migrate to any display of (female) nudity, whether it's inappropriate or not. Crotch shots, nipple slips, looking down a blouse, looking up a skirt, bikini slips...guys can't get enough of it, BG. Why do you think MovieHotties is still going strong here? Hell, even I'm guilty of posting this type of material: I posted the thread about Sofia Vergara's rear end poking out of her dress at the PrimeTime Emmy Awards.

Why do men find a woman's private area attractive? Well, if I may be blunt, vaginas are attractive to guys because we're horny and want to put it somewhere we know it will feel good. There really isn't a lot to it lol

On personal matters between couples, I would just keep it there. To me, there's a statute of limitations on that kind of stuff, like a while after the breakup...if you'll never see them again, or if you're sharing with a close friend. Maybe it's okay then. I don't know for sure, I've never done that. I've kept couple details hush hush.

Now that I've said that, let me make it clear: I've only shared with a close friend, like as a secret. I have never shared with a whole group of friends. I'd never share any of that with guys who would judge the girl while I'm dating her. That's not right to me...
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Old 12-12-2012, 11:28 PM
Well I have,to agree that men like anything to do with female parts it make me smile l started the thread coveruing a certain area,and,then another showed more, grins yes all men think different to women
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Old 12-12-2012, 11:32 PM
Maybe other males aren't responding to the threads because most of what Bondgirl posts is extremely disjointed and confusing?
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Old 12-12-2012, 11:34 PM
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Okay l wanted to write about how we judge each other and dont look at the face of a person sometimes

I am across a freind who started a relationship with a man he liked her on face value
Case in point. What?

And I absolutely pulled these lines completely out of context but you cannot stage sentences in this manner and expect to make any damn sense.
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Old 12-12-2012, 11:35 PM
Yesmen are horny and always think of sex while women will be thinking differently but you are right that getting to have sex is good in the long run
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Old 12-12-2012, 11:42 PM
Okay you have had your say now l will say that if you want,to insult me again l will report you okay

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Old 12-12-2012, 11:47 PM
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Okay you have had your say now l will say that if you want,to insult me again l will report you don't you
Report me. If I get banned, I get banned but I don't see a leg for you to stand on. In no way, am I hating on you for being female, or Australian, or anything else that you may be or may believe in. That being said, I absolutely believe it to be my right as a contributing poster on this board for 5+ years to expect from someone, who starts as many threads and posts as often as you do, that there be some coherency and logic and overall effort put into what you post. If you don't want to, that's fine. I can't make you. That's your right. But I also have to the right to question, quote, and address anything that you post and make an argument out of it without directly attacking you. Which I have not done.

Kthnxbai.
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Old 12-12-2012, 11:50 PM
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Case in point. What?

And I absolutely pulled these lines completely out of context but you cannot stage sentences in this manner and expect to make any damn sense.
Okay l l have had a few run ins with you being rude on this forum and l am,sick of,it l have had a good time on this thread until you came in please grow up and act like a adult
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Old 12-13-2012, 12:11 AM
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Okay l l have had a few run ins with you being rude on this forum and l am,sick of,it l have had a good time on this thread until you came in please grow up and act like a adult
I would say that most posters I have dealt with would say I very much hold discussions and even arguments like an adult. It is completely fair that you don't agree. But because not everyone may share that particular belief as you, that makes that statement subjective .
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Old 12-13-2012, 12:41 AM
Well I will say this again joblo told me if l have a problem with a member being insulting to report that person to him so l say to you again please stoop your behavout towards me
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Old 12-13-2012, 01:41 AM
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Okay, l wanted to write about how we judge each other and dont look at the face of a person sometimes.
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Yes men are horny and always think of sex, while women will be thinking differently...

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Old 12-13-2012, 02:04 AM
Sometimes l wonder why l even post on the forum l can see that l am not liked here plus l try and make threads to everyone's liking but l see what l am doing here is crap lI thought l was doing good did you all know that

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Old 12-13-2012, 03:01 AM
L also want to say sorry to the member l have been posting to on this thread no one wanted to post here because l am here it is a shame people couldn't see me as a nice person
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Old 12-13-2012, 04:30 AM
It's hard to believe that's what you took from what I posted.
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Old 12-13-2012, 04:39 AM
So please explain your post then on what it means l am sorry l am just upset and sick of being judged I thought l had a good thread l didn't think l would be bullied of on what l wrote here

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Old 12-13-2012, 10:02 AM
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Maybe other males aren't responding to the threads because most of what Bondgirl posts is extremely disjointed and confusing?
Keep in mind that she's getting used to posting with a new device...at least I remember her posting that a little while ago, so maybe you can lay off a bit, eh?
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Old 12-13-2012, 04:54 PM
Personally, I'm a chubby chaser. Sir Mix A Lot had it right.



That said: on a serious note, Australia does have some pretty fucked up problems with the female body:

They ban women with small breasts from appearing in porn, you know, because everyone who watches small breasted women is actually a pedophile.

They also have a serious problem with labia (Very NSFW link!)
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Old 12-13-2012, 05:14 PM
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Yesmen are horny and always think of sex while women will be thinking differently
That is sexist. Sometimes I be thinking about other stuff, I dont always be thinking about sex. I dont know why you be telling me how I think. You be wrong.
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Old 12-13-2012, 06:08 PM
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That said: on a serious note, Australia does have some pretty fucked up problems with the female body:


They also have a serious problem with labia (Very NSFW link!)
Interesting article. Sad.

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Old 12-13-2012, 06:29 PM
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Keep in mind that she's getting used to posting with a new device...at least I remember her posting that a little while ago, so maybe you can lay off a bit, eh?
For 2+ years?
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Old 12-13-2012, 06:57 PM
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That is sexist. Sometimes I be thinking about other stuff, I dont always be thinking about sex. I dont know why you be telling me how I think. You be wrong.
That's what I was thinking, with the addition of references to a 30+ year old Julian Bond/Garrett Morris comedy sketch.
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Old 12-13-2012, 11:34 PM
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For 2+ years?
Has it gone on for that long? I know she recently (in the past week or two) got a new handheld device she's learning to use, so I'm cutting her some slack on that...

...I'm sure she means well, even with what you might be holding against her.
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Old 12-14-2012, 03:39 AM
I love Bondgirl's posts here, how she puts time into the site, I put a topic up the other day and she was the first and only person to participate in it. The thing here is I apply my home morals to the internet as well as the roof over my head, talking about topics like the hair on my balls, body images even if it is to strangers that even if I met I wouldn't know, this is something I just don't get involved with.

On occasion but for the more part I don't.
I do often think of body images though since were also on that subject, I work with young males trying to find a way to fit into the world, 18-24 year olds. Sex, iphones and booze are what we go to while working overseas in the navy. Rating women based on appearences happens everyday here. I hate it.

I find the "unattractive" are easier to get along with and sex regardless of the amount of pubic hair there is, small penises, big vaginas, no matter, if it's out of real love for the person nothing else matters, now if out of anger that may change or sex simply for the physicality of it.

I did wonder about myself, I have more hair on my legs and thighs than most, I've often joked with others that I was a foot double for the hobbits in the lord of the rings movies. My genitals also fall into this group of body parts with more hair. It shouldn't matter, to shave and shape it all would be futile since it will all grow back more and according to the old wive's tale I learned from Seinfeld, it'll come back thicker too. Still does any of that actually become bothersome to people, women in bed, or can I reduce the amount of hair I have in a way that doesn't make my legs and genitals look 13 years younger but have enough hair to not make it all uncomfortable. It helps out in the cold weather over here.

My conscience is usually right but because of that I never have fun, you know what I mean.
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Old 12-14-2012, 06:27 AM
Yes l have been here two years and l have done well to stay this long also l have met some wonderful members who except me and my mistakes oh the device is a mobiile so if there mistakes here it is because l am learning,to use the,thing

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Old 12-14-2012, 06:47 AM
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Has it gone on for that long? I know she recently (in the past week or two) got a new handheld device she's learning to use, so I'm cutting her some slack on that...

...I'm sure she means well, even with what you might be holding against her.
Thankyou l know you are,trying to help l can't wait to go back to the,computer but using,the mobile when it,is night here in,Australia has been fun grins
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Old 12-14-2012, 07:10 AM
My fried had her pubic hair waxed she said it,hurt like hell it was also red raw also she didn't,think the bum hair would as well also she said it was hard to walk oh,l am never going to do this geez also it would sting in,the,shower
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Old 12-14-2012, 10:58 AM
Has anyone ever tried laser hair removal? I wonder how much that hurts, if at all...
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Old 12-14-2012, 12:12 PM
Probably depends on how hairy you are.










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Old 12-14-2012, 12:48 PM
As far as body image is concerned, you're probably right, that women have it a bit tougher. What I've noticed though is that the pressure to look a certain way that is put on women, is perpetrated mostly by other women.

I know plenty of women that seem much more concerned about the judgments they get from other women than by men. Thus I don't blame men so much for women that get breast implants, nose jobs, spend an hour doing makeup, cry in the mirror about a little belly fat.

When you look at men's magazines, who's on the cover? Hot girls. When you look at women's magazines, who's on the cover? Hot girls. They like to judge themselves.
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Old 12-14-2012, 05:02 PM
It certainly doesn't help to have something like the very liberal outlet Huffington Post refer to women like this as "plus size."
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